When a man suddenly stops calling you, there are three possible reasons why. And there’s only one you have any control over. Learn what it is, how it could be keeping you from a real relationship, and what makes a man want to keep calling you again.
When a man doesn’t call once you’ve connected in a deeper way, there are only three possible reasons why:
1) He doesn’t know what to do with the connection you share because it’s not the right time for him.
2) He doesn’t know what to do with the connection you share because he’s not mature or capable of getting any closer.
3) Something was said or done that tells him that a relationship with you is not a fit for him.
There’s absolutely nothing you can do about the first two reasons. No matter how amazing you are, a man who isn’t ready for a relationship won’t suddenly become ready or mature because of anything you do, say, or are.
But screeching halt at number three, right? Your worst fears are confirmed: something you say or do CAN make a man turn in the opposite direction. Well, not exactly. It’s something else…
Let Me Tell You About The "Instant Relationships"
Many women, after knowing a guy for only a short while, let themselves get wrapped up in what I call an Instant Relationship.
This is when a woman will already be thinking ahead that she is in a relationship with a guy, that they will be spending all their weekends together, and that he won’t be dating any other women.
This is a problem when the guy hasn’t talked to her about being in a relationship. He hasn’t decided if she’s someone he wants to commit to, but she’s acting like they’ve already committed.
And because she thinks they are in a relationship, she gets disappointed when he isn’t exclusive with her or making plans to see her on a Friday. She reacts to that feeling of disappointment in a way that often pressures him and pushes him away.
He starts withdrawing, and she doesn’t understand why.
When a woman jumps into an Instant Relationship, it’s the fastest way to scare him away.
So, instead of putting all your energy into creating this Instant Relationship, focus instead on drawing the man you want in and connecting with him on an emotional level.
When you are able to create emotional attraction with a man, you have unlocked the secret to getting him committed to you for life.
ARTICLE - CHRISTIAN CARTER
